You could just imagine walking along the beach or the road side and you see a very
voluptuous lady with a big butt and wearing a brazier with the cleavages all popping
out.
you wish you could just grab her and touch that beautiful body of hers ,but you
can't , so what do you resort to, MASTURBATION...
don't get me wrong, I am not condemning the practice as it has some healthy
benefits but I'm just looking at it from a neutral point of view!!!
Masturbation or fapping as its fondly called, is usually regarded as the safest form of sex
as it doesn't involve any other partner hence freedom from diseases, and also freedom from the guilt of cheating. most guys who are single or in a bad relationship see this as a last resort,
but the big question is "IS FAPPING REALLY SAFE".!!!!!!!
I myself used to be an addict so I embarked on some research activities to find out some of the side effects of the topic in mention and found out some alarming details!!!!
MASTURBATION TAKES MORE THAN IT GIVES!!!!!!
the side effects affect our day to day lives and have a great impact in the following areas of our lives;
- social life
- physical health
- psychological health!!
- career and profession
SOCIAL LIFE:
.When you stay home to
masturbate on Friday nights instead of hanging out with friends – it is a bad
sign. As well as when you are late on your date, because you were having fun
with yourself. If you start to admit that your habit affects your social life –
you should do something about it.
apart from this, this act makes you withdrawn from society as a result of shame and guilt.
an instance is when your friends are talking about their relationships with other women and
all you have to bring to the table is your interaction with porn mags and pornsters...
Those who masturbate lot they not be able to focus on their work and their social life. Person can't able to talk to other by making eye contact because of lack of confidence. People those who masturbate lot, try to live lonely and can;t able to live happy. Students with this habit can't focus on study.
PHYSICAL HEALTH:
1.Actually semen takes 4 to 8 days(depend on person to person) to produce in body and to produce small amount of good quality Fluid you need to eat lot of healthier food, protein and minerals etc. If you do not Erupt your Fluid though sexual activities, it give strength to your body, make your muscles and bones stronger. If you continue waste you Fluid just for fun and enjoy several times in week then it will make your health dull.
2. Effects on bones - If you do extreme masturbation (8 to 10 times in week) and continue this habit for long time like for six month then this will make harmful effects on your bones. When person try to masturbate lot in short amount to time them he or she started to Erupt type of white part of bone which include phosphorus, carbon and other minerals which are extracted from bones. If you masturbate lot then you feel your knees and elbow joints start to make sound on moving just like very old person.
3. Effect on your face - By watching a person's face you can tell that how much he masturbate or include in sexual activities. And even you can tell which hand he use lot to masturbate. Those who masturbate lot their cheeks started to shrink, narrow and go inside just opposite of chubby. Pimples are natural in young age but those who masturbate, for them pimples and acne create big problems. They increase in numbers and make bigger in size on face. Make spots on face. By that face look ugly. Masturbation also make asymmetric you face for example if person masturbate lot from his right hand then his face will be narrow and asymmetric from right side.
2. Effects on bones - If you do extreme masturbation (8 to 10 times in week) and continue this habit for long time like for six month then this will make harmful effects on your bones. When person try to masturbate lot in short amount to time them he or she started to Erupt type of white part of bone which include phosphorus, carbon and other minerals which are extracted from bones. If you masturbate lot then you feel your knees and elbow joints start to make sound on moving just like very old person.
3. Effect on your face - By watching a person's face you can tell that how much he masturbate or include in sexual activities. And even you can tell which hand he use lot to masturbate. Those who masturbate lot their cheeks started to shrink, narrow and go inside just opposite of chubby. Pimples are natural in young age but those who masturbate, for them pimples and acne create big problems. They increase in numbers and make bigger in size on face. Make spots on face. By that face look ugly. Masturbation also make asymmetric you face for example if person masturbate lot from his right hand then his face will be narrow and asymmetric from right side.
PSYCHOLOGICAL HEALTH:
Truth of the matter is, masturbation messes with your brain chemicals and conquers your mind
If you are often obsessed
by thoughts of when you are going to do it next, that a strong sign of having a
big problem.
psychologically, you feel inferior to other people and gradually, you become anti social.
even if you are married, the addiction doesn't stop as you can't have a normal sexual
relationship with your spouse, because to you, it wont be erotic and exciting and this
could bring about unfaithfulness and struggle in the marriage.
CAREER AND PROFESSION:
An individual who masturbates cannot be focused on his job or career . such can include;
lateness to work, truancy, poor ideas and innovation, sluggish behavior, to mention but a few. for those who are into sports, it also affects their productivity.
Coach of national teams like boxing, gymnastic, runner teams give advice to their players, not to masturbate or sex. month before their competitions and championships. Because they know masturbation reduce will their lot of energy and stamina. After masturbation you feel like lack of energy and feel like you need a long sleep rest.
!!!IS THERE A WAY OUT!!!
Luckily, there is a way to stop this addiction!! but I can tell you that it won't be easy!!!
the key to stopping this addiction is called "THE FLAT LINE PROCESS"
this process involves not fapping yourself for 90 days,, crazy huh!!!
I told you it wouldn't be easy, but the long term benefits would be priceless.
if I could do it, why can't you.
if you do not agree with me lets do this - just do not masturbate for 90 then tell me how you feel. If you do not masturbate for one year then I am sure that you will feel like superman and feel like you can capable to do any thing this world. Just keep your self busy and eat proper diet, do exercise and do not masturbate for one year and compare your picture of now and after one year with this schedule then you can feel these changes after one year - more healthier, more symmetrical shiny and glorious face, more fat but not at belly or stomach, look fit, more happy, more focused, more successful etc.
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if you have other ways of curbing this addiction, please comment below to give your opinion and support.
if you have other ways of curbing this addiction, please comment below to give your opinion and support.
